When people talk about self sabotage, they generally refer to a repeating pattern.
If you want to change your life as quickly as possible, become fluent in "pattern logic."
To do that, learn to identify the underlying patterns that stop you from creating what you most want in life (for instance, the relationship or the work situation of your dreams). This article will tell you how you can get started.
But first, what are repeating patterns?
Most people—including highly successful individuals—are experiencing what we could call "repeating patterns" in one or more areas of their lives.
These are basically our version of Groundhog Day (a movie where a man wakes up every morning to experience the same day over and over again).
For instance, if you continuously find yourself with unreliable business partners or in unsatisfactory work situations, this is a repeating pattern.
If you continuously find yourself in relationships with emotionally unavailable partners, or with partners who do not support you, this is a repeating pattern.
Questions:
Can you think of other repeating patterns you have seen in people?
Do you have (or have you had) any of these patterns?
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